Get Happy Now - 10 Tips For Happiness
evawhite on January 14th, 2008
“I never know what to get my father for his birthday. I gave him a hundred dollars and said, ‘Buy yourself something that will make your life happy.’ So he went out and bought a present for my mother.”
By – Rita Runder
10 Tips To Get Happy Now
1- Accepting Yourself: You must learn to love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.
2- Relationships: The best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. Relationships are always an important part of life. And I mean all relationships - friendship, love, marriage, relationship by choice, relationship by birth.
3- Friendship: A road to a friend’s house is never long. Similarities create friendships while differences hold them together. In prosperity, our friends know us; in adversity, we know our friends.
4- Accepting Others: If you want others to accept you as you are, then the same way we need to accept others as they are. God has made every human being different and we have no right to try and change that human being to suit to our needs and society.
5- Live For The Moment: Life is slipping out of our hands like sand. Live and enjoy every moment of life as before we even realize this the moment has already slipped out of our life.
6- Enjoying The Little Pleasures: Happiness is a voyage and not a destination. In our search for big pleasures, we sometime forget to enjoy the little pleasures of life.
7- Overcome Pain: Till we experience pain, we cannot know what pain is all about. We cannot learn without pain. One must learn to overcome pain and move ahead in life.
8- Prayer And Religion: Most of us pray because we fear god. God is like a mother to child, how a child is most secured in his mothers lap, the same way we are most secured in our god’s lap. How much ever a child makes mistakes in life a mother is always there to forgive him and show him the right direction, the same way how many ever mistakes we make in life God is always there to forgive us and show us the right path. God’s love is absolutely unconditional.
9- Tolerance: Tolerance is the positive and cordial effort to understand another’s beliefs, practices and habits without necessarily sharing or accepting them.
10- Be peaceful: If we are incapable of finding peace in ourselves, it is pointless to search elsewhere.
In our quest for success and a better life, we have forgotten to get happy. Let’s try and remember that with our regular chores we also need to be happy, so let’s all GET HAPPY NOW.
