Sex And High Heels
evawhite on May 22nd, 2008
Ever wondered why shoes do it for you? It is basic and primal; but as it is out today, scientific as well! I decided to look a little deeper on this so called ‘scientific’ aspect to it to something otherwise almost primal. I have of course poured and pepper my thoughts on what I found.
Footwear, women and the obsession goes back thousands of years ago. The Chinese women had a peculiar obsession with foot binding. No one really knew why and many reasons were given, of them for purely sexual reasons, erotic appeal and to even say quote “If her feet were not bound, she would be as strong as her husband”. That’s certainly not my quote. There is a picture here of an ancient Chinese high heel.
Men I know are not aroused by their feet, they are tickled but that’s it. Women on the other hand are. No you say? Only because you haven’t tried. It’s why you like shoes, the feeling you get with a good pair of shoes is ….. (Primal)
*primal* used to denote a natural unknown feeling*
Perched on high heels is a provocative stance. It’s impossible for a woman to cower in high heels (have you tried?) You are compelled to take a stance, strike a pose (stylishly) because three inches above you need to find that (sexy) sense of balance.
The stance; Quote “”Tapers the toes, arch the instep, lift the calves, tilt the fanny and bow the back while oiling the hips and sashay the gait…. They make the foot look shorter and more precious and yet add the formidableness of extra height. An illusion of longer and more defined legs more pronounced and curved breasts and needless to say a rounder butt. High heels emphasize all the aspects that are considered to belong to the realm of women’s physically sexual attributes.”
The sexually enhanced posture definitely adds to the psyche. Makes one feel infused with a sense of empowerment (must have felt it) its not some offshoot of masculine machine, it’s an electric undercurrent of feminine empowerment.
Lets look at now the scientific aspect to sex on high heels, a study by a female doctor who proved successfully high-heels are, well, good. Read on.
Pelvic muscles are primarily responsibly for sexual performance and satisfaction so wearing high heels creates an optimum posture providing essential blood to the pelvic muscles which are relaxed and walking in the high heels then exercises and improves strength of the pelvic muscles and the ability to contract. Clearing resulting in improved sexual experience.
Quote “It makes sense that heels are good for abdominal and pelvic muscles, To counter the lean forward, you tighten the abdominal muscles and push the pelvis under.”
Statutory warning: The angle of the heel must be comfortable. Ideally at a 15 degree angle. Two - Three inches at the most for normal use. Higher heels on occasion.
I remember going to Dharamshala and Mcleodganj some years ago (the Namgyal monastery, where the Dalai Lama is based, is there). At the time, China had just won the contract to host the Olympics and even then the Tibetians were circulating flyers telling everyone to boycott those Olympics and other Chinese products etc. I remember thinking at the time, that this is not much of a protest or struggle, ensconced safely in India hundreds of kilometers from their actual homeland. Ever since India offered the Tibetians and their spiritual leader the Dalai Lama a safe haven in Dharamshala, Tibetians moved to India in their thousands and settled here, continuing to wage their agitation against Chinese oppression from afar. I had thought to myself they are living a comfortable enough life here in India, not really putting them in the line of fire, so do they really deserve support?
The Tibetians have been suppressed and denied basic rights such as religious freedom under Chinese occupation and these factors are only now coming to the fore with the Tibetian call to the world to boycott the Olympics and to support their struggle against Chinese oppression. Tibetians who have been able to escape continue to live in India or elsewhere, unable to return to their homeland because of this. In this article the Dalai Lama appealed to the world community to “please help” resolve the crisis in his homeland. He was so disturbed by some of the protesters turning violent that threatened to resign as the religious and spiritual head of the Tibetian people.
